Relative pronouns: who, which, that, whose

The relative pronouns in English are who, which, that and whose. Whom is also used by some people but is considered by many to be too formal.

A relative pronoun introduces a relative clause:

This is the table which I bought.

This is the table =  the main clause
I bought =  the relative clause
which =  the relative pronoun joining the two clauses

Relative pronouns
We can use who or that when we talk about people.

Who is more formal than that.
This is the man who helped us. (more formal)

This is the man that helped us. (less formal)

We don’t use what:
This is the man what helped us.
We use which or that when we talk about things (but not people).

Which is more formal than that.
It's the watch which my husband bought me for my birthday. (more formal)

It's the watch that my husband bought me for my birthday. (less formal)
In informal speech, we can omit which and that when the pronoun refers to the object of the sentence. It's the watch my husband bought me for my birthday.

In this sentence, 'the watch' is the object of the verb bought so we don’t need to use that or which.
We cannot omit which and that when the pronoun refers to the subject of the sentence. It was the man that sold me the car.

In this sentence, 'the man' is the subject of the verb sold so we need to use that or who.
It was the man sold me the car.
We use whose to show possession. John, whose brother was also a musician, plays over 100 concerts every year.

See also

Relative clauses >>

Practise this grammar (pre-inter / intermediate)

Exercise: relative pronouns – who, which, that, where, whose >>

9 Comments

  1. sombir - September 30, 2015, 2:03 pm Reply

    very nice to learn English

    • iwevyou - December 8, 2025, 8:48 am Reply

      hello, its very very nice that you think that sir. congratulations to be the first one to comment on this sir i hope reply baibai

  2. Anonymous - December 1, 2015, 1:42 pm Reply

    What about “whom”?

    • JOY - August 11, 2016, 7:51 pm Reply

      There is whom also. You are correct!

  3. Anonymous - April 8, 2019, 7:33 pm Reply

    English is the best subject to learn

  4. Precious - November 21, 2020, 10:25 am Reply

    Pls can someone join this expression by using whose…
    The boy has gone home
    You called his mother

    • Anonymous - July 14, 2023, 5:33 pm Reply

      The boy, whose mother you called, has gone home.

  5. m u rao - January 31, 2021, 3:34 am Reply

    Can anyone explain how to use relative pronouns Which/That?
    I am always confused. What is difference between them’

    • Stuart Cook - January 31, 2021, 5:36 pm Reply

      ‘Which’ is slightly more formal than ‘that’. It’s explained above.

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